
Well, you’re each focused a bit much on your own tree, but the one who is also seeing the forest is velma, not you.
Your tree: “negative” applies to the entire sentence, including “beliefs” and “behaviors”, not just “attitudes”. Correct.
velma’s tree: the definition also includes stereotyping and prejudice stemming from misconceptions. Correct.
The forest: that you don’t consider an attitude or belief “negative” is immaterial when it has a negative effect on bi folks’ well being or safety.
Also, initiating a sexual relationship with a bi person because you wrongly believe based on your incorrect stereotype of bi people that this will lead to threesomes is something I would classify as negative behavior. Especially when the threesomes predictably don’t materialize.





Clever girl