The bar is so low
I’m really not picky

I’m told I’m too nice for my own good. Where does that put me? 🙃
FWIW a lot of folks reject basic decency and are like moths to a flame for people who treat them like utter crap.
I was always shocked in my dating days how being mean and nasty to someone often resulted in them chasing me, and being polite and kind to them resulted in them rejecting me, often with hostility.
A lot of folks have very warped mentalities and will only find someone desirable if they are treated poorly or rejected by that person. Like, most of the messages I get on dating apps were always from women who felt ‘excluded’ by my standards and wanted to like argue with me about it, to prove themselves the ‘exception’ to my standards. It was so weird. And anytime I gave them a ‘chance’ they always proved the rule, they were never an exception. Folks be crazy like that.
Thanks for sharing this. I can see people who are struggling rejecting decency… I’m no psychologist but “I’m not worth it” or “he won’t stick around” seem more likely when people are depressed or suffering from low self-regard. I wish we could all be kinder
If you want more engagement, put the picture first.
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Given you responded 12 days later, you must mean it!
Sounds like you’re hanging around the wrong guys.
Do you consider yourself one of the good ones lol?
So I’m a bad person for making a dumb joke about vaginas? Sainthood is the only criteria. Got it.



